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Beautiful Nature: Can We Connect with Something we Idealise?

Writer: Mary Contrary
Mary Contrary
2 hours ago
3 min read

We humans just love admiring beautiful nature, don't we? But when we admire nature only from a distance — on a big screen, in a curated documentary, or as an Instagram-perfect shot — do we risk turning it into a celebrity, something to idolise rather than to enter fully? Mary Contrary dives into how we relate to something that's been here forever.


Close-up of green club moss or lichen on a mossy tree trunk with pine needles, set against a blurred forest background
Nature's intricate artwork: A close-up reveals the delicate beauty of lichen and moss, forming a lush, textured fairy-tale landscape often overlooked in the forest.


Lately, I've been wondering why we often put nature on a pedestal and if that keeps us a bit distant. Think about Sir David Attenborough. We've got him to thank for getting us excited about exploring the wonders of nature, especially on a rainy Sunday. Let's really dive in—enjoy the breathtaking views and raw beauty on a big screen with awesome surround sound, accompanied by those beautiful soundtracks you always hear in nature shows. And of course, relax with some snacks and a drink, letting the stunning visuals and music take us to new heights. Nature deserves to be experienced in a BIG way.


Up, Close and Personal


Nature is seriously awesome and mind-blowing, and not just when we see it on our screens, but in real life too. We often say that being in nature makes us happy, helps us heal, and cuts down our stress. We’re convinced that hanging out outside lifts our spirits and boosts our well-being. So yeah, nature is totally amazing and spectacular.


Close-up of bright green mossy ground with pine needles and dry leaves in a soft-focus forest setting
Amidst the forest floor, the intricate dance of moss and fallen leaves reveals nature's delicate beauty, inviting a deeper connection beyond its grandeur.

Beautiful Nature's Celebrity Status


But when we start putting nature on a pedestal, are we risking an "us versus them" vibe, kind of like how we view celebrities? Can we actually see it for what it really is? By idolising and glorifying nature, are we setting ourselves up for unrealistic expectations and making the gap between us and nature even bigger? Maybe we're even creating a divide between people who "get" nature and those who don't.


Bells and Whistles


How about we try looking at nature from a different angle? Let's really watch and listen to it, just soaking in its natural, sometimes hidden magic, instead of just admiring it from a distance.


I argue that slowing down and noticing the small, imperfect details helps us bridge that gap. Nature’s quieter moments — the jewel-like raindrop, the hush of wet leaves — invite a different kind of connection, one that heals, humbles and teaches. If you’re curious about seeing the wild a little differently, give the article a read and let me know: what small natural thing has surprised you lately?



Close-up of wet fallen leaves on sandy ground, covered in raindrops, with muted brown and green tones after rain.
Raindrops glisten like jewels on fallen leaves, highlighting nature's hidden magic in life's quiet moments, that we might miss when we rush by.


Person in a hat takes a photo through a mirror-like panel amid a field of red and yellow wildflowers under blue sky

About the Author: Mary Contrary


Mary Contrary is a natural-born perspective creator. Her stories give us a different perspective on life than we might have ourselves. In any case, Mary never shies away from being a little contrary. That's what makes life interesting, she says. Mary lives somewhere that's not exactly nature nor a village, and in the evenings, she enjoys watching the bat show with her dogs.

(Pexels- Beyzaa Yurtkuran)

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