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Synchronicity: Are You Team 'Coincidence' or 'It's a Sign'?
When synchronicity occurs, we often question if it's coincidence or a sign. Four experts offer four different perspectives, suggesting we can remain open-minded without choosing between belief and skepticism, embracing all possibilities.
8 min read


Being Single: Lonely Interlude, or New Life Story?
Music, movies, and conversations often suggest that having a life partner is better than being single, with science supporting the health and other benefits. However, is being single just about waiting for the right person, or can it be a fulfilling, lasting lifestyle choice? Is it time for a new narrative?
7 min read


Staying Fit Tips? Walk like Monty Python's Ministry of Silly Walks, Obviously!
We all know that walking can help us stay fit. But some researchers took the time to investigate something entirely new. They discovered that walking in a silly or inefficient manner, like John Cleese in Monty Python's 'Ministry of Silly Walks,' to be precise, can burn more energy and boost mood. It just goes to show that everyday activities don't have to become boring to remain effective.
2 min read


How Work is Changing: Time's Up for the Rat Race?
If there's one thing we've picked up in recent times, it's that we can successfully rethink big, long-standing beliefs and perspectives. Take work. The meaning of work, the daily grind, the rat race, 'the more we work the more successful we are,' the 5-day week in the workplace? All of that's definitely evolving and work is changing.
6 min read


Silent News: Why News Background and Alternative Perspectives Matter
In a world overflowing with information, the news can overwhelm us. Columnist Mary Contrary tells us how exploring different news perspectives, backgrounds, and underreported voices, can offer us nuanced insights and context and a clearer picture. It can provide a deeper understanding of our complex world, beyond prevailing beliefs. Let's delve into the quiet news — the news we might otherwise miss.
4 min read


Surrendering to Our Innate Healing
Have you ever considered that true healing might sometimes come from within, rather than a battle fought externally? Join us in exploring the profound insights shared by Dr. Kim D’Eramo on why it sometimes pays to surrender to our innate healing.
5 min read


About Rosie: Aging Gracefully and the Magical Garden Shed
There are people who age, there are people who age positively, and then there are people who have their own unique way of aging gracefully. Mary Contrary met such a person—her remarkable neighbor Rosie, an 'old' lady who saw right through you—yes, you, with all your stereotypes about life and the elderly! This is the story of Rosie, based on a real-life event.
8 min read


Help, I'm Middle Aged, it Will all Go Downhill from Here
Many of us in the Western world view older people as vulnerable (and a bit comical) and expect our own decline of mind and body to begin as early as middle age, as if it were inevitable. But could these expectations—especially when reinforced by societal norms—actually influence the outcome?
4 min read


Glimmers: Falling Back in Love with Life
Did you know that, although we are naturally wired to focus on the negative for the sake of survival, we also possess an innate capacity for the positive? It is a skill our bodies are already attuned to—one that fosters our well-being and can be cultivated. Deb Dana introduces us to the simple concept of 'glimmers' and explains how they can help us fall back in love with life.
6 min read


Community and Connection at Grandma's Kitchen in Vienna
In Vienna, a grandma's-kitchen café named Vollpension is managed by life experts (no senior citizens here). This café is not just a beloved spot for intergenerational interaction and genuine cuisine, but also provides a new outlook on ageing and café culture. It’s a place that promotes independence for all ages. This is their story.
3 min read


MOVIE Therapy: Self Healing From Your Own Couch
An expert in psychology from the UK has come up with an inspiring therapeutic idea called the MOVIE Model. It's a science-based, fun twist on therapy that lets us enjoy some therapeutic and self-healing benefits right from our couch... by simply watching a movie!
3 min read


Meet the Rainforest Mind: Sensitive, Clever, Misread
Do you feel super sensitive, smart, complex, creative, intense, curious, lonely, and misunderstood? Guest writer and psychotherapist Paula Prober introduces the "Rainforest Mind," describing individuals who feel both too much and not enough. Explore this unique perspective on life.
5 min read


My Time in Ghana: "Poverty" and African Life
My Time In Ghana: During her filming trip to Ghana in the nineties, Mary Contrary, a perspectivator at heart, discovered aspects of African life which are so incredibly rich, they contrast sharply with the poverty and hardship often seen by Western visitors. This is her story.
7 min read


Mindful Living and Perspective: A Perfect Match?
When you think about it, life is like a palette of colours, where our perception is crucial. Mindful living with perspective means embracing different perspectives and finding meaning in life's mosaic. It encourages us to step back, breathe, and appreciate the bigger picture, even amidst the details. Are mindful living and perspective a perfect match? Let's explore this together.
4 min read


"Tapping" for Anxiety, Health and...Shifting Perspectives!
So, we're open to a new perspective. But, are we really? Our subconscious voices and limiting beliefs can make genuine change difficult. Enter energy tapping. Intrigued? Read on as Mary Contrary explores the topic. Mary has successfully used tapping for years on various issues and often practices it while walking her dog.
5 min read


Leading from the Heart: Business Psychologist Hema Vyas
Meet Hema Vyas: A London business psychologist championing heartfelt leadership for future success. The world is changing, and so is leadership. Today, it's more about integrity, responsibility, connection and intuition, than it is about numbers and strategies. This is her story.
3 min read


The Meaning of Willpower: Time to Review This Pot of Honey at the Rainbow's End?
If only we had more self-control. We'd eat healthier, exercise regularly, avoid indulgences, eliminate procrastination, and increase savings. Achieving these goals sounds ideal. Right? Isn't it time to rethink our meaning of willpower?
4 min read


Family Dynamics at Work with Dr. Dardashti
We understand more and more how past family dynamics unconsciously influence current interactions, like recurring conflicts. But what about the workplace? Dr. Niloo Dardashti of the Manhattan Psychology Group emphasizes its importance, noting it can enhance empathy, colleague relationships, job satisfaction, and productivity. This is her story.
5 min read


A Time for Wonder, Reflecting, and Perspective
In this Random Perspective Essay, Mary Contrary invites us to explore the world from various angles with curiosity. Are you prepared to pause and embark on this adventure with her?
5 min read


New Life Road Movie (1): New Beginnings
What do you get when you take a group of single adults, or "solo lifers," who are each at a crossroads in life and ready to create new ways of living, leaving behind old places and old perspectives? Ideally... a story with a happy new beginning! Let yourself be inspired!
1 min read
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